Scunthorpe woman determined to support others through recovery from alcohol, drugs and trauma
27 September 2023
A woman who got her life on track after years of alcohol and drug use is encouraging anyone facing similar challenges in the local community to seek help.
After experiencing childhood trauma, Louise who is now living in Scunthorpe first sought solace in alcohol and drugs at the age of 15. This initial step took Louise down a difficult path - she moved from home to live on the streets, and then found herself in a physically and emotionally abusive relationship. Louise felt her mental health seriously decline, and began using alcohol and other substances such as crack cocaine, resulting in her children sadly being removed from her care. Unfortunately, this led Louise to overdose on several occasions.
Louise first started receiving support from national alcohol, drug and mental health charity, With You in North Lincolnshire back in 2021. Today, she is a core part of the community group activities and credits her recovery worker, Richard Hopper and the team at With You for helping her turn her life around and forge a new positive path. Louise now wants to help others.
Louise said:
“My first ever cigarette was a spliff [cannabis]. I started using drugs around 16. I started drinking when I was about 15 and was an alcoholic by the time I was 17. I was using every day. I didn't realise back then that there may have been help available.
“I decided to leave school—as I had quite a traumatic childhood. I didn't want to go home, so I ended up on the street, surrounded by friends who did drugs. I then moved to Cardiff several years ago and was there for about a year. A friend introduced me to speed. Through him, I met another guy and we became a couple. It was an emotionally and physically abusive relationship. He re-introduced me to weed, alcohol and he introduced me to crack cocaine. I didn’t know what it was—he referred to it as ‘bones’ and was literally pushing it on me. If you love someone, they don’t do that. If they say they love you and say “Try this”—don’t even think about it, walk away. They don’t love you.
“It was constant drugs, drinking and my mental health was deteriorating. I stopped seeing family members. My children got taken off me. I ended up overdosing a number of times—I didn’t want to be there.
“If it wasn’t for With You, I wouldn’t be here now. They are an amazing team. I'm looking towards working for them supporting others going through traumatic experiences and still going through their recovery. My life has turned around so much and I know I'll never go back to that place. I have a really supportive partner now.
“Before, I couldn't see life - it was all dark. Now it's amazing - I can see how bright the world is. If ever you’re influenced by anyone, don't do it. They don't care about you. If you ever do fall into that chaotic drug and alcohol-induced life - seek help. It will be the best choice you ever make.
“I've matured a lot over the last year. A lot has happened for the good - I joined a lot of groups. Moving to North Lincolnshire is the best choice I’ve made; the people up North are amazing. Life is bright and there is a future out there - a good one. Even if you feel like there's no hope. Seek some help.
“I haven't smiled properly for a long time and a few months ago I laughed out loud. I'm smiling all the time now - every single day. Everybody's got it in them to change. I didn't think my life was worth anything until I found this group and With You.”
Kate House, Service Manager at With You in North Lincolnshire said: “I hope Louise is as proud of herself as we are of her. She has come so far and worked so hard to get to this point. She is an inspiration to others and continues to attend our groups to continue her journey and to support others in theirs.”
If you or someone you know is struggling with alcohol or drugs in North Lincolnshire contact northlincsadmin@wearewithyou.org.uk call 01724 857633 or visit their website wearewithyou.org.uk. You can use our webchat if you are worried about your alcohol or drug use. We can help you stop or cut down as well as help you with other problems. You don’t have to pay for any of our services and we won’t tell anyone about anything you tell us without your permission.